Maybe he just needs someone who 'knew' his brother in his last hours to listen to him. He may just need to talk to someone who was there who can understand what he and his family have been going thru for the last 45+ years. God Bless!
My sister in law sent in her estimates. IRS sent her a letter saying her estimates had been miscalculated and she should send $60. less. So next quarter, she sent $60 less. Then here comes a letter from IRS charging her a penalty for underpayment of her estimate. Took almost a year to get that mess straight. Her original estimate was right.